Point is, not that your negative critcism is something we are ignoring nor aren't thinking about, its simply that this is a space for like minded people; we know perfectly well how the MRA movement views feminism and women in general, we poltiely do not agree with it and damn sure never will; however what will all this fighting and arguing bring us? Another strawman. One thing I don't know if you realize is that women are equally violent in their personal relationships as men. The only way we can benefit from the nurturing instincts of women is to have exclusive female only political parties. It is also weird that people don't see the total insanity of this. I said politicians in general do this - women as well as men. Come on. It is always men that are the most violent criminals, which is why prisons are full of men. You didnt have any responses to my points back then and you probably wont have any now either, (unless you consider repeating yourself a response). I'm not interested in discussing gender issues with someone who cannot see women as human beings. And we are going to have a very unfair world as the rich will compete against the poor for more wealth and power. This would be every political party we know in the world. He claims this means that men will always outnumber women in most positions of power in our world. And that is the reason why the world is in a mess. Women cannot compete against men when they use violence. I amwell, I'd be insulted if I wasn't so used to it. William Bond (author) from England on June 11, 2012: Thank you Aincas, for your positive feedback. Both men and women tend to want to marry up, but their criteria as to what constitutes "up" are different. "At present female politicians have to join patriarchal political parties and prove themselves to be macho men to be taken seriously. Many governments attempt to balance the powers of a monarchy between multiple groups, but a ruler that is determined to be cruel . What i am trying to point out is that there is an alternitive that no one has tried and that is matrairchy. "Men have the intellegence to be able to fly men to the moon, but is incapable of solving basic problems like warfare and poverty. Hope, the Advantages & Disadvantages of MS Access listed above helps you choose the right version of MS Access. No person would want to do that, unless driven by a powerful maternal instinct. Hi CSR , I care a lot about humans as individuals. Omg, I'm so not a feminist. 2. People tend to believe too much of what their being told and its a pity because then, when the truth comes out everyone becomes blind to it and then chooses the lie over the truth. As for there being collective guilt and reward you are most certainly right about that; men as a collective have been given their just reward by Mother Nature which has been the result of all the problems we now must address as a result, not to mention the praise among societies for their for their inventiveness, is that not reward enough? A number of characteristics that distinguish women leaders from men when it comes to qualities of leadership: Women leaders are more assertive and persuasive, have a stronger need to get things done and are more willing to take risks than male leaders.Women leaders were also found to be more empathetic and flexible, as well as stronger in interpersonal skills than their male counterparts.enabling them to read situations accurately and take information in from all sides.These women leaders are able to bring others around to their point of view.because they genuinely understand and care about where others are coming from.so that the people they are leading feel more understood, supported and valued. William Bond (author) from England on May 15, 2012: Over 99% of the violence of the world is committed by men. All the team members can share their ideas and distribute . Because women enact their competitiveness and violence in an indirect way, where they do not face the risks involved in enacting one's own violence and competition, there is a moral hazard in putting women in charge of how and when said violence is dispensed. Some women are simply not comfortable with the stereotypically "girly" role; it would be like putting on a mask, so to speak. Marriages is a union between two people that provides a sanction for the two partners. You might also want to consider that men constitute the vast majority of the victims of violent crimes too. She just made a demand of her husband, made it a condition of her continued love and respect, and benefitted from the result. But, the tide started to shift towards male dominance. Yes, you can always find individual women who are not very materialistic but you have to see the big picture. William Bond (author) from England on July 09, 2012: It is strange Aincas, but most of the opposition for what i say about matriarchy comes from feminists. Your position is that the other sex definitely will do a better job. So what is wrong in making it easier for women to get into power?. May give you the opportunity to feel better in the short run. They started limiting them to stay at home and nurture the young ones. Or do not receive the support they need in raising a child. I am deeply astonished by your lack of respect for tribal peoples, would you say the same thing about my Native American Indian people? And I'm sorry to have to tell you that one reason the gap between the rich and poor is growing all the time is because of government interference in the free market. It does not intend to lead a social change. This is only a tiny fraction of the accomplishments of human kind under what you call patriarchy. It's not as if matriarchal societies of the past were ones where men did not exist, or spent their days knitting and doing their nails. "Again if we look at the animal kingdom, we find every spring animals like stags, bull and rams fighting each other for dominance and access to females. If you are going to claim that saying that men and women are different is sexism then you are going against common sense. im sorry to say it but i dont think lucy83 reads what you write wabond. The family will also be better off because the man will do a better job of providing for the family. ". You're not even trying to hide it. The Feminist idea that women need to learn to be as aggressive and competitive as men is nuts. If she got her brothers to come and do this, they'd be arrested for unlawful restraint, but because she goes through ex parte legal channels and has the police do this on her behalf, it's legal. Instead women need to embrace their maternal instincts and point out that because of their nurturing instinct they would make far better rulers of our world, than ruthless and violent men. Biological determinism - the basis for pretty much every kind of sexism. Although I am a man, I can appreciated the problems women have in having children. I never said. Perhaps the failure of female leadership of the time is not appreciating just how dangerous men were. These are questions that need to be asked. Because society does not hold them accountable--even when they are overtly violent and anti-social--there is a further moral hazard in that they will actually be able to get away with more violence and competitiveness than men do before being called on it. Likewise despotic dictatorship is again possible, because a dictator has an army of young men whom will murder and torture the population when ordered to do so. Women have not shown anything of the sort. It is very true what you say about the differences in the sexes - how males are naturally more aggressive - im not saying all males but in general males are. Just because you don't see female competition because you're not affected by it, does not mean it's any less aggressive than male competition. But women are likewise motivated by their maternal instinct. Because a monarchy often uses family lineage as the designation of who can take over the throne, there are numerous instances in history when children were placed in this role. Men in power have been involved in these wars. ". Children also participted in these workings as well. Where is your peer reviewed research that tells you this? The real scary part is that I think you genuinely believe that you want to make things better. Many men leave their wives and girlfriends when she gets pregnant, because they don't want the responsibility of caring for their own children. May foster technological progress. The gap between rich and poor is growing all the time, we still have wars, and even democracy is failing because our elected politicians are so easy corrupted. So are you saying that materiality is perfection? The Mosuo women are China's last surviving matriarchy. This is not an easy problem to overcome. This is a personality trait issue that is encouraged by some and dispised by others. "Five thousand years of history have shown that patriarchy is totally incapable of solving basic problems like warfare and poverty. A project powered and managed by Maven Logix Pvt Ltd. The difference between the nuclear family and the extended family is that a nuclear family refers to a single basic family unit of parents and their children, whereas the extended family refers to their relatives, as well - such as grandparents, in-laws, aunts and uncles, etc. Patriarchy, on the other hand, is a social system, wherein males enjoy all the powers, control, and authority, and women are given subordinate roles. It is crazy to say men and women are the same. Anyone who aspires for such a position has to be extremely competitive in order to succeed and this is every bit as true for women as it is for men. You dont like men much do you? When a man earns less than his wife, the risk of divorce (an industry driven by women, who initiate 70%+ of divorces) increases by 40%. You're just guessing and speculating. They are, on principle, need-oriented. In other words, women who try to get ahead in any patriarchal institution, has to act and behave like competitive and ruthless men, because if she was to show her caring and maternal nature, she would be condemned as being weak and sentimental. There are far more male killers than female killers. The human male is similar but human males fight with spears, swords, rifles, machine guns, field guns, rockets, aircraft and nuclear weapons. So unless women learn to be as ruthless as Margaret Thatcher they cannot compete against men for power. Bureaucracies slow things - decision-making, communication, action - and the company becomes a . Most women who do this do it to acquire de facto physical custody of the children the man will then be prevented from contacting (there's your awesome maternal instinct, depriving children of a loving father), and to gain physical custody and control of the home and assets (there's your "women are not greedy like those awful men"). But, circumstances started to change when males started to subjugate and suppress women. It has nothing to do with "patriarchy". Boys are trained to be strong, superior, good planners, decision makers and not to express their feelings openly whereas. The system usually rewards women for this behavior. I could go on, I could fill a whole book up with the names of despotic male rulers, murders, serial killers and acts of genocide. When women believe there is little to no risk of getting hit back harder,they can and will be as violent as men. If you think that women don't compete then you're gravely mistaken. It believes in maintaining balance among the sexes as highlighted in feminism. Perhaps this is what is happening. If I take away the house or withhold a share of the assets, it will harm the children. This is the nature of leadership and has nothing to do with gender. Creating a far more equal and caring society. 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